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If you r honest everything else can work out
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Integrity
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But you can be many things but a lack of honesty will doom you.
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Empathy
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All good ones John
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How can you root out that lack of honesty in the interview process?
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Coachable
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Yes to empathy! I want to know what that looks like on your team John.
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Well it’s behavioral like sometimes if someone bashes their old employer on first interview
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It’s a bad look.
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I read that book a few years ago by that Stanford business professor “The No Asshole Rule” - terrific insights
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Yessss
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Yeah agree that those bad apples are just a bad trade off
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You spend more time with colleagues than family
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You want culture enhancers not culture killers
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Missionaries > mercenaries
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Love that
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How do you then go about investing in these missionaries or culture enhancers once you get them in your org?
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But important to nuance ones personal situation
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How do you grow, promote and keep them?
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Like I get it that some people have different priorities or realities etc
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Assign responsibility
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Let people work on the big clients
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We have had less than 10% turnover in 10 years. Starts with hiring right type and profile
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Dive in
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Then training, mandate, challenges, comp, delegation and creating right culture
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It’s not hard if you’re not an asshole
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Like, entrepreneurs are masochists but execs are sadists
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So NOT inflicting pain is obvious you’d think that many drive talent away
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Right - see who gravitates to learning and growing vs CYA
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A lot of people are taking about “creating culture”. What does that mean for you?
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Vibe - energy - positivity
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My wife and I started biz and we’ve always had a family vibe. Challenge is to keep it as you grow, in good or bad times
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Genuine curiosity- also like a form of altruism and doing good
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But it’s about communications largely I think and leading by example
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Ash, do you still look at your company as a fam? Or does that have to change over time?
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Yes BUT
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I am less naive but wanna always remain idealistic
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I used to say and still believe that today employers should show loyalty first and then they’ll get it back
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Well said
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But I acknowledge that my new staff won’t see ME as family early on so that’ll take time
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That’s not being naive but being idealisfix
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Old Ash was naive in thinking people will view ME as fam from day 1.
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How do you change now that you realize people don’t see you that way at the beginning?
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I’ve learned so much in 2 years we’ve gone from 25 to 75 prople
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People
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Main way is that for 10 years I always treated company as a collective of people but admittedly people also need to realize that it’s about the ORG and not them.
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Selflessness back to sports analogy
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If someone wants the ball, doesn’t get it and becomes a negative dynamic, as CEO you have to address that
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Lots of wisdom there.
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These days it’s very easy to get lost in mushiness
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But business like sport is WAR
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you need toughness and we will see a regression to the mean
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Define mushiness?
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Showing emotion is awesome and I urge it. So NOT that
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John, would love your thoughts on mushiness! Haha
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Hmmm
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More about being too PC, everyone touching the ball shooting or everyone getting a medal.
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Life is unfair, but it’s what you make of it
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See the silver lining in all
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My perspective is that if I am leading a company it’s going to be successful
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We’re going to have major clients
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Confidence 💥💥💥
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Whether a big company or a start up
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But
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With big clients come big challenges
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Always a but :)
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True so true
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Things should be hard
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I want people to be able to both express themselves and take on the work
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But we all have to enjoy the work
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So that also touches on mushiness part
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People don’t seem to understand how much hard work goes into success
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I’ve been very successful at closing big accounts but sometimes I have to not allow the clients to overwhelm the team
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The Asshole rule applies to clients too
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Agree
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My decision on accepting a deal isn’t based on $
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So the mushiness for me is setting expectations on both sides
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We’ve all experienced that in growing quickly. Sometimes it can feel too successful. If you have a closer at the head there is no slowing down.
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I am never going to be the company that has to take on the abusive client because I would never hire the abusive emplo
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And it’s exciting. I love that you are so conscious of protecting your team because burnout is real.
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Employee
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It is
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Well said.
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That really is putting people first. Not just lip service.
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Yeah defending a client from other abusive staff or clients
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Last year we decided to part ways with people under those scenarios
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No one is worth it
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And to your earlier point
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That’s how I run my baseball team
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I asked the affected staff why they didn’t say anything and their response hurt me: “we thought you knew and were cool with it.” Heartbreak!!!
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There are some ex pros in the league but they can’t play on our team because they don’t fit the culture
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Wow!
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I wasn’t aware. I wasn’t cool with it. We made swift changes
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Are either of you willing to share a leadership fail and how you grew from it?
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OMG I have 5 per day
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Ha ha ha
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Sometimes I just need to more patient
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It stems from that
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So jumping to conclusions
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But I’m also first to admit fault, apologize
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Instead of finding an excuse
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Also there are 4 Ps
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People, profit, process and product
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Sure I’ve incorrectly assumed that everyone can or wants to bring in and close business
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In fact many don’t
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I will never get mad at people and I don’t care to get mad respect profit but when people don’t follow / improve process and hurt product, that’s upsetting
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So I learned and adjusted
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But you still gotta keep ur cool
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Always keep your cool
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You are leading by example
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No one wants to work with or for a phony
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True but balance if as leader you accept mediocrity and losing then that seeps into cukture
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Always BALANCe
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Someone told me when looking for leaders, don’t look at the title but see who people are following.
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Good point
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Yes who do people respect
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Balance seems like a major talking point right now.
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For me it’s been a central guiding tenet
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Chinese principle of yin yang
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It must be difficult to consider with the level you are both at.
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One of 4 themes of my 1st book
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It is but I’ve working with millennials to be very refreshing
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Tell me more!!
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Sometimes they get a bad rep but they’re collaborative by nature
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Very ok and adept at sharing information
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Agree gotta see good in all
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Digital natives - great at blending technology with creativity
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Kind of an art to me
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Mgmt and biz is art and science cliche but true
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Yep
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Well it sounds like you should each be writing your own leadership book. What else that I haven’t asked is important to you in this conversation.
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Or needs to be said?
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Put yourself in others shoes
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I think the concept of philanthropy
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Give back
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Align with causes
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When you read email or say stuff ask not how you wanna convey it but others will Interpret it
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Right - total transparency
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And remember to have fun and note we are the lucky ones
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☀️
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Easy to forget in our 1%-ary
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Yes have fun and leave the ego at the door
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Well you are both fantastic leaders. I’m sure everyone will want to work with you after this interview! Lucky teams.
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U r too kind thx
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If you are tuning in, you can find me at begin-development.com with Begin Development. And you can find Ash and John taking over the world. 🌎
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    Founder/CEO of Watch Mojo.
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